I promise forever

How long is forever , what does this mean?

On the day we marry our future holds so many very bright spots,

we feel that the world is ours as we look into the eyes of the

man that loves us and holds me in his arms to protect me.

When we make those promises to each other , we commit to

that person our hearts , our love , to be faithfull only to him.

That sharing will deepen our lives together , always.

What happens to us that takes us away from those vows that

were made to one another on the blessed day?

The reason I ask these questions as a friend confinded in me

that she is having an affair , that she shares her heart with another.

When vows are broken, its like a breaking of a mirror the pieces

go in many directions never to be whole again or the same.

Neither is this woman the same, or her partner her husband.

She says is there any going back? I reply back, back to what?

She tells me she regrets what she has done and feels so foolish.

She asks do I tell him? Can I keep this quiet or will he know?

I replied, your heart will know. I told her that when her secret

if it is revealed will hurt her and her husband beyond compare.

The betrayal and the hurt will be like nothing she ever experienced.

Confessing your wrong doing does not make you free , who ever

said that thought , was not thinking of the impact of the words

spoken never to be taken back again.

Advice, before you do something that will damage the vows

of your marriage , think of the day when you were married.

The way you looked at each other...the love that is real.

What the other man offers is a quickie by the wayside..

Not ever ever worth hurting the man that loves you.

Tell me, have you ever been tempted to stray or have you,

share back with me , tell me have you ever cheated?

written by Nancy Macdonald RPN

http://www.preciousbabysite.com