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Question:
BE CAUTIOUS ACCUSING HUSBAND OF AN AFFAIR
I think my husband is having an affair with someone he works with. When I asked him, he denied it and siad thatif if he was going to have an affair, it definately would not be with her.
HE GOT VERY DEFENSIVE , which I have heard is a sign.
Also, when I have gone to his job to meet him for lunch or taken my daughter to sat Hi to he Daddy; they have been in close proximity of each other and she will not look me in the eye.
I try to talk with her but don't get very far before she skitters off and he look sheepish.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?

I Don't WANT TO LOSE HIM AND i SUE AS HELL DONT'T WANT HER THINK SHE HAS THE UPPER HAND
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Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Be very careful on how you handle this, because if tere is truly nothing going on, you may riesk your marriage if you keep bringing it up.
Woman have a thing called intuition i am a firm believer in the "Spidey " senses tingling,but you need to make sure that this is not just your jealousy.
Yes it true people who are cheating often vehemently deny it and get defensive, but so do some people who ae totally innocent.
You said they have been in close oroimity to one another but as long as they work together and not groping each other in the supply closet , no biggie.
If she can't look you in the eye, maybe it is because he something to her about what you were thinking Maybe she is embarrassed. Maybe she is jelous of you or maybe she doe not like you.

ON THE OTHER HAND
Perhaps she is feeling guilty and truly can not look you in the eye. If you really feel this strongly that they are doing the flunky behind your back , do your homework and keep an eye on things.
I feel the need to say that in a marraige there needs to be trust on both parts. I feel that accusations and jealousy only serve to destroy relationships,but so do affairs.
WHATEVER you do, do not let this slip out to your children,,
THIS IS NOT FOR THERE EARS.

Please reply on what you would do if you suspected your partner of cheating and having an affair?

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